Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Stand by your man...

On the radio this morning they were talking about Herman Cain's wife who finally spoke out regarding allegations of her husbands alleged sexual harrassment. She basically said there was no way he could have done that blah blah blah blah blah. We've heard this all before. Powerful man... extramarital affair with a man, hooker, tranny, someone that works for him, etc etc... Then we see the press conference where the man either admits or denies his wrong doing and his wife is standing next to him pledging her commitment to him for the rest of her life as if they were renewing their wedding vows.
Now I took a vow for better or worse but if my husband gets caught in a hotel room butt naked in some Jello with a hooker... I think he knows he'll be going home to a pretty empty house. I digress...
I always wonder how these women feel, what they think, if they want to slap the man. Heck maybe that is why I am soo addicted to The Good Wife. I always just want to see one of these women punch their husbands in the throat. :-) but that is just me.. So sound off. Ladies what would it take for you to stand by your man? What would be the last straw or too much.. Men what do you think of these men OR these women? Do you think less of them or loose any respect?

5 comments:

Randy S. said...

If it was some sh*t my wife did "15 YEARS AGO" I'll probably giver hell for it at 1st but will def stand by her side.
In Cain's case: you have a brother with influence and a shot to be on top_and some woman that come forward 15yrs later_sounds maddddd shady to me! Isn't it obious someone is trying to push him off??? Does to me!

Powerz said...

What if it was chocolate syrup instead of jello? I know how much you like chocolate........

Anyway, make lie detectors mandatory. At least you have a starting point.

Annamaria said...

@Randy what if you guys have been married for 20 years??? Would that change your views?
I agree TIMING is a lil fishy but that doesn't negate what was done.

@Powerz I Don't care what it is. You should NOT be in a hotel room with another woman. NOR should you be butt naked with another women...

Aisha G of HartlynKids said...

when you marry ball players or politicians you gotta deal lol

Brooke said...

I agree with Aisha.

I think these women know what they're getting themselves into when they marry a famous man, a wealthy man, a politician, etc. Most of them are along for the ride, and they also know to play their position when/if sh*t hits the fan. Most likely, these women are in it for more than love - they're in it for money, prestige, comfort, security, etc.

Trust me, if Herman Cain's name was Pookie, I highly doubt his wife would be on the radio defending him. But then again, maybe she WOULD. Some women are fiercely loyal to their man, and will defend him til the end no matter what he's done simply because he's their man.

I can't say I'd be as loyal...it depends on the charges and if I truly think he's capable of doing whatever it is they're accusing him of. If I feel he's guilty, there's no way I'd be standing by his side while he conducts a press conference...even if I planned on staying. I never for once thought Kobe's wife would leave him, but I damn sure wouldn't be sitting next to him holding his hand while he cried about cheating on me. He'd have to eat that one by himself.