Monday, November 28, 2011

One Word Mondays.....

Happy Monday. I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday weekend...And with that today's Cyber Monday Word is:


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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Wandering Eye...

I had a reader ask me yesterday to pose a question to the group. So here goes:

She wants me to ask the family how a woman should take guys that are in serious relationships that say they love their significant other yet look at other females. Is this ok? Is it cheating? Does it mean they don't love you? How should we females handle that situation?

Here is my opinion..
My husband loves me. I do not doubt this for a second. Does he look at other females. YES. Is this ok..Sure is. Is it cheating? NOPE. Does this mean he doesn't love me? NOPE. How should we handle it. Nothing to handle.

He's human and has eyes. As long as he isn't disrespecting me by breaking his neck to check some other chick out while I am standing there it's all good. Heck there have been times I've told him that girl's boob  is about to pop out of her shirt WATCH.. Can I be mad at him if he looked NO I just told him to. I'm secure enough in myself to know that if he looks at a random girl it doesn't mean anything. I'm also secure enough to know that if he ends up pursuing any other random chick he is NOT the man for me & it's time to move on.
Besides the question I must ask a woman before they get worked up over a man looking... Have you ever looked at another man. Even if it is just for a split second. Even if it meant nothing???

In my opinion if him looking at another woman bothers you this can mean one of two things. Either you the woman has some insecurities about yourself OR you don't trust him that it will end at just him looking at another female.You feel that for whatever reason he may one day take it further & disrespect. In which case you have no relationship...

Again this is just my opinion but I am curious to see what you all have to say about it...


Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Losing Your Virginity

Does everyone remember their first time? When they were just ready (or not) to have sex for the first time? Maybe you were nervous, Maybe you wasn't.. Now sometimes your first is special & dear and sometimes they can be a nightmare that you want to forget. Sometimes it happened in the most romantic of places and sometimes it could have happened in the ghettoist of places... We as a society put so much importance on having sex that we've become a bit desensitized. Again with daily life and busy schedules sometimes you gotta just get it in, but imagine how the sex would be if once every few months you approached sex as if it was your first time. What would you do for each other? How would you dress? How would you want it? And what do you think this would do for your relationship?

Sound off people what do you think about doing that?? And if you have any funny/scary or crazy first time stories.. feel free to share.

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Stand by your man...

On the radio this morning they were talking about Herman Cain's wife who finally spoke out regarding allegations of her husbands alleged sexual harrassment. She basically said there was no way he could have done that blah blah blah blah blah. We've heard this all before. Powerful man... extramarital affair with a man, hooker, tranny, someone that works for him, etc etc... Then we see the press conference where the man either admits or denies his wrong doing and his wife is standing next to him pledging her commitment to him for the rest of her life as if they were renewing their wedding vows.
Now I took a vow for better or worse but if my husband gets caught in a hotel room butt naked in some Jello with a hooker... I think he knows he'll be going home to a pretty empty house. I digress...
I always wonder how these women feel, what they think, if they want to slap the man. Heck maybe that is why I am soo addicted to The Good Wife. I always just want to see one of these women punch their husbands in the throat. :-) but that is just me.. So sound off. Ladies what would it take for you to stand by your man? What would be the last straw or too much.. Men what do you think of these men OR these women? Do you think less of them or loose any respect?

Monday, November 14, 2011

One Word Mondays...

Happy Monday everyone...

And today's word is......................... attraction..

Friday, November 11, 2011

Sexy Random Thoughts...

Ok so today I will be sitting in my daughters preschool show but far be it for me to deprive you of my blog that I know you look forward to.. So Feel free to leave/list your sexy random thoughts/Facts.. or just bizarre stories.

I will start:

Did you know that sex is a natural antihistamine? It helps open clogged nasal passages & It can even help combat hay fever and asthma..

Have a Passionate Weekend!

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Turn offs

Thus far on this blog we have examined how to keep things spicy in relationships, things that keep us attracted, what we like, etc etc... But let's talk about the flip side..What are your biggest turn offs? What small minute thing can a member of the same/opposite sex do that will turn you off completely?


Wednesday, November 9, 2011


Yesterday the world lost a great pioneer in the Hip Hop game at the tender age of 44. Dwight Errington Myers better known as Heavy D. He was the original overweight lover and made big dudes cool. He was a pioneer and if you followed him on twitter a very inspirational person. He is another prime example of you never know when your time is going to come so enjoy each day as if it was your last. And like he said we should try to be inspired every day...
Feel free to share your thoughts, feelings, or inspirations...

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

I do....

Good Morning Everyone,

Although it's my day off and I have something that I need to get done I'm taking a break to write my blog. Yesterday we had one work Mondays and the word was marriage. A few of your gave your opinions of what marriage meant to you. Now normally I give my input but I just stepped back for a minute. Kim K decided (whether consciously or not) to make a mockary of the institution of marriage. My opinion couldn't be described in one or two words.
Til death do you part..
This is the vow you take when you get married. Better or worse. Sickness and health. Richer or Poorer... Unfortunately people get caught up in the dress, party and fun of the whole event they ignore or don't really think about these vows. When you marry you not only vow to be with that person ONLY for the rest of your life. You are both taking a commitment to be there for each other at all times, and to support & love each other at all times. It's not easy. There are going to be days when you disagree and there are going to be days when you fight. You may love each other forever but there are sure going to be days you don't like each other. Heck I've only been married for less than 4 months and even I know this. No matter how life was before you said I do things do change when you get married and especially when you have kids & there is an adjustment period and you learn as you go along. The point of marriage is to promise to learn & grow together. At the end of the day I feel that this decision should not be entered into lightly. You need to think about it carefully. And work together. Talk as much as you can about everything and if you are having problems take a step back, a deep breath & seek the help of a marriage counselor or therapist.

Monday, November 7, 2011

I'm back with ONE WORD MONDAYS

Good Monday Morning Peoples...

I took a brief break... Mental health time because sometimes you gotta just put yourself first. :-)

But now I am back & ready to get down to business. And with that here is one word Mondays....

Todays word is Marriage.... (thank you Kim Kardashian...)